
If you are unmarried and have a child but do not have a legal timesharing (child custody) plan in place, or “parenting plan” as it’s referred to in Florida, it would be beneficial to get one. If you are married and are contemplating divorce then timesharing will be decided during the divorce proceedings.
A legal timesharing plan establishes clear boundaries, times that each parent can see the children, and imposes real consequences for those that violate it. Additionally, a legal time sharing may protect your children and/or provide them stability in their lives.
In Florida “child custody” is known as “timesharing” and is controlled by § 61.13, Florida Statutes.
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Florida law states that “the best interest of the child” is the “primary consideration” when the judge is creating or modifying parental responsibility and creating, developing, approving, or modifying a parental plan , including a time-sharing schedule. See § 61.13(3)(a)-(t), Florida Statutes.
The “best interest of the child” standard is very fluid, meaning it is not a black and white test. Instead, Florida law requires the judge to take a variety of factors into consideration, including the “welfare and interests of the particular minor child and the circumstances of that family”.
Moreover, § 61.13(3)(a)-(t), Florida Statutes contain all of the factors that the judge must consider when deciding on a parenting plan and answering the best interest of the child question. The factors include, but are not limited to:
If you have a permanent timsharing plan in place, but for some reason you want to change or modify it you should consider the following. In Florida, before a judge can modify an existing timesharing plan, you must show “a substantial, material, and unanticipated change in circumstances and a determination that the modification is in the best interests of the child.” See § 61.13(3), Florida Statutes.
In other words, to successfully have a judge change or modify a timesharing plan you must show a change in circumstances that is 1) substantial; 2) material; and 3) unanticipated. You will also need to show that the modification you want is “in the best interest of the child”, which as explained above, will impact the above factors.
If you are the father of a child, and never married to your child’s mother or are not the legal father of the child, then you need to have a court determine you are the actual father of the child, before you can get timesharing rights.
This process may be relatively simple, if the child’s mother is cooperative. If she is uncooperative or opposes you having legal rights that come with being the child’s legal father, then a formal hearing may be required.
At The Law Offices of Scott J. Kalish we have the experience to represent you in your child custody or timesharing case. We represent people throughout South Florida, specifically Broward, Palm Beach, Miami-Dade, Martin, and St. Lucie Counties.
With our main office conveniently located in Coral Springs, and other office locations throughout South Florida we are never far. If you have a question about your family law or child custody matter, or any other matter, reach out to us today for help.
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Florida uses parenting plans with time-sharing schedules rather than traditional “custody” labels. Courts aim to foster frequent and continuing contact with both parents when it’s in the child’s best interests. To get oriented, start with our plain-English guide to Florida Parenting Plans and what happens if a schedule is ignored: Enforcing Time-Sharing.
| Schedule | How It Works | Pros | Considerations |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2-2-3 (Alternating) | Parent A: Mon–Tue; Parent B: Wed–Thu; alternate Fri–Sun | Frequent contact with both parents; predictable | More exchanges; may be tough with long commutes |
| 2-2-5-5 | Parent A: Mon–Tue; Parent B: Wed–Thu; alternate Fri–Sun | Stable school-week pattern; fewer fights over weekdays | Weekends alternate; coordinate activities carefully |
| Week-On / Week-Off | Parents alternate full weeks (often Sunday switch) | Few exchanges; easy to remember | Longer stretches away from each parent; add midweek dinner/FaceTime |
| Primary / Alternating Weekends | One parent has school nights; other has every other weekend + weeknight | Useful for complex schedules or long distances | Less equal time; ensure generous holidays/summers |
| Custom (Travel/Shift Work) | Built around work rotations or out-of-state travel | Flexible; tailored to child’s routine | Requires detailed plan & strong communication |
Tip: Add virtual time (FaceTime/Zoom), exchange protocols, and a child-first holiday rotation. See: Parenting Plans Explained.
If there’s violence, learn about injunctions. If you’re unmarried, consider a paternity action to establish legal rights.
File for divorce or paternity and request a parenting plan/time-sharing schedule under §61.13, Fla. Stat.
Exchange financials and child information. Many circuits require approved parenting plan forms.
If no settlement, the judge will weigh best-interest factors and enter a parenting plan.
| Factor | Mediation | Court Hearing |
|---|---|---|
| Cost | Usually lower overall | Higher (attorney time, experts) |
| Timeline | Weeks to a few months | Months to a year+ |
| Privacy | Confidential | Public record |
| Control | Parents design solutions | Judge decides |
| Compliance | Higher (buy-in) | Enforceable orders; more rigid |
Learn more: Mediation in Florida Divorce • Florida Courts ADR
Court decisions center on the child’s best interests. Many plans seek substantial, frequent contact with both parents when practical, but outcomes depend on the facts and the §61.13(3) factors.
There’s no fixed “age of choice.” A judge may consider a mature child’s reasonable preference, but it’s one factor among many. Courts focus on stability, safety, and overall welfare.
Support is calculated using Florida’s guidelines (see §61.30) considering incomes, overnights, health insurance, and daycare. Equal time doesn’t always mean zero support.
Document issues (texts, emails, missed exchanges) and review remedies here: Enforcing Time-Sharing. Courts can order make-up time, fees, or other relief.
Relocating 50+ miles for 60+ days typically requires agreement or court approval under Florida’s relocation law (§61.13001). Get advice early to avoid missteps.
This clause gives the other parent a chance to care for the child before using a sitter if you’re unavailable for a set period (e.g., 6–8 hours). It can reduce sitter costs and increase parenting time when communication is strong.
If safety is a concern (e.g., substance abuse, violence), the court may order supervised time temporarily while requiring steps to address risks. See safety options: Injunctions/Restraining Orders.
Unmarried fathers generally need legal paternity established to secure time-sharing and parental decision-making rights. Ask about a paternity action and temporary time-sharing while the case proceeds.
Yes—with evidence of a substantial, material, and unanticipated change plus best interests (see §61.13). Keep a log of issues and proposed solutions.
Many plans alternate major holidays annually and split school breaks. Build specifics (pickup times, travel, notice rules) into your plan to prevent conflict.
Review the Florida Family Law Forms (including parenting plan templates) and the Family Courts page. For co-parenting tools, look for reputable co-parenting apps to track exchanges and expenses.