“Am I really expected to work until I’m 82 just to keep paying alimony?”
“What happens to my support when my ex retires?”
If you’ve asked yourself either of those questions, you’re in the right place.
Whether you’re nearing retirement and wondering if you can finally stop making those monthly alimony payments, or you rely on that support and are worried it might suddenly disappear. Florida law has answers. And the good news? It’s more balanced than ever before.
This article breaks down how Florida handles alimony when retirement enters the picture. We’ll look at both sides — what it means if you’re paying alimony, and what to expect if you’re receiving it — and walk you through the latest laws, court considerations, and options for moving forward with confidence.
If you prefer audio, here’s a podcast episode I covered on this topic. You can listen to it below. This article is based on what I discussed in this Florida Divorce Podcast episode…
Florida Law Says You Can Retire — and Courts Respect That
Let’s start with the basics.
Florida law clearly recognizes your right to retire. No one can force you to work into your 70s, 80s, or beyond just to meet alimony obligations. That’s not only unreasonable — it’s no longer legally supported.
In 2023, Florida updated its alimony laws to make things clearer and more balanced. These changes gave more weight to the idea that people who’ve worked their whole lives have earned the right to step back — without being financially punished for it.
👥 This Applies to Both Spouses:
- If you’re paying alimony, retirement may give you grounds to reduce or even terminate payments.
- If you’re receiving alimony, these changes don’t mean your support will disappear — but they do mean the court will reassess what’s fair.
How Courts Decide Whether to Modify or Terminate Alimony
Here’s where it gets practical. Retirement doesn’t automatically end alimony — but it’s a valid reason to ask the court to take another look.
Judges use a list of factors to determine whether a change is appropriate, as outlined in Florida Statute 61.14, which covers modifications based on life changes like retirement.
🧾 Key Factors Judges Consider:
- Age and Health of the person paying alimony
- Type of Work they did (Was it physically demanding? High stress?)
- Customary Retirement Age in their field
- Motivation for Retirement (Is it a sincere life decision or a strategy to avoid payments?)
- Financial Needs and Assets of both spouses
- Retirement Income: Social Security, pensions, 401(k)s, investments
- Past Compliance: Has the paying spouse met their alimony obligations so far?
“Judges look at the full financial picture — not just one side of the story.”
In short: The court wants to know if continuing the current alimony setup would be unfair to either party in light of retirement.
When and How to File for an Alimony Modification
Timing matters. If you’re planning to retire and want to modify your alimony, you can start the legal process up to six months before your actual retirement date.
If you’re planning to retire and seek an alimony modification, you’ll need to file a Supplemental Petition for Modification of Alimony, providing evidence of your changed financial circumstances.
For the Spouse Retiring:
- File early — these cases can take time (anywhere from 6 to 12+ months).
- Be prepared with:
- Proof of income before and after retirement
- Details about your retirement assets
- Monthly budget showing your needs
- Documentation of retirement plans (letters, HR records, pension timelines)
- Proof of income before and after retirement
For the Spouse Receiving Alimony:
- Know that you have the right to participate in the process.
- Gather your own financial records:
- Income sources
- Living expenses
- Ability (or inability) to work
- Income sources
- Speak with a lawyer early to prepare your response if you anticipate a modification request.
Real-World Example: 30-Year Marriage, Approaching Retirement
Let’s say a couple divorces at 60 after a 30-year marriage. The husband was the breadwinner, the wife dependent on alimony.
In Florida, the wife could receive durational alimony for 75% of the length of the marriage — that’s 22.5 years of support, taking the husband into his 80s.
But what if he wants to retire at 65?
He can file for modification or termination of alimony up to six months before retiring. The court would then evaluate:
- His current income (likely reduced after retirement)
- His expenses
- His health and age
- Whether the wife can support herself
- The assets each spouse holds
If he has a modest retirement income and no substantial savings, the court may reduce or end alimony.
If he has significant assets and income from investments, the court may decide a reduction is fair — but not full termination.
⚖️ There’s no one-size-fits-all answer — it’s about what’s equitable in that specific situation. If you’re wondering about what happens to your retirement savings, 401k, pension, etc during a divorce, read this article, Can My Spouse Take My Retirement In A Divorce In Florida?
Another common question is what happens to property you both owned after a divorce? You’ll need to research the topic of what is Non-Marital Property in Florida to answer that question.
Planning Options for Both Sides
Whether you’re worried about paying or losing alimony, you have options — and the earlier you plan, the better.
✅ For the Paying Spouse:
- Consider filing early to avoid overpaying once your income drops.
- Gather documents showing your change in circumstances.
- Be proactive — courts respond better when you’ve done your homework.
✅ For the Receiving Spouse:
- If you’re currently divorcing and retirement is a concern, lump sum alimony might be worth exploring.
- This is a one-time payment in lieu of long-term monthly payments.
- It provides stability and avoids future surprises — but may require negotiation.
- This is a one-time payment in lieu of long-term monthly payments.
- If you’re already receiving alimony, work with a lawyer to assess your options if your ex is planning to retire.
🛡️ Strategic planning can protect your long-term security — on either side of the agreement.
Common Questions About Retirement and Alimony in Florida
Q: Can I be forced to keep working to pay alimony?
A: No. Florida law supports your right to retire, but the court will decide whether your retirement warrants a change in alimony.
Q: Does retirement automatically cancel alimony?
A: Not automatically. The court evaluates several factors to decide what’s fair.
Q: What if my ex is retiring and I rely on alimony?
A: You may still be entitled to support. The court will look at your needs and your ex’s ability to pay post-retirement.
Q: Should I consider lump sum alimony during my divorce?
A: It’s a smart option if you’re concerned about long-term security, especially if your ex is close to retirement. It provides certainty — but may be harder to negotiate.
Final Thoughts: Retirement Doesn’t Have to Be a Legal Battle
Retirement should be a time to breathe — not brace for conflict.
If you’re paying alimony, you deserve to know your rights and make a plan.
If you’re receiving it, you deserve to feel financially safe and informed.
The good news? Florida law supports fairness for both sides. With the right legal strategy and some early planning, you can create a solution that reflects your new chapter — not your old conflict.
Need Help Navigating This Process?
Whether you’re approaching retirement or are concerned about how your former spouse’s retirement might impact your financial future, you don’t have to navigate it alone. Florida law now provides clearer protections and options for both sides. Every case is unique, and the best outcomes start with a thoughtful, strategic plan.
If you’re considering filing for a modification, or simply want to better understand your rights, I invite you to reach out. Call our office at 561-208-1859 or fill out the form here to schedule a complimentary strategy session to discuss your situation.
We’re here to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.


